We’ve all said it and likely too many times than we care to admit. We’ve said all those judgmental comments either in our minds or *gasp* out loud. Those painful words that start with “I will never…” or “I can’t believe he/she…”. They almost always come back to bite us either through guilt or more likely by us finding ourselves in the exact same position. I vividly recall being in the baby food aisle of Target with a 2 and 4-year-old. My then 2-year-old daughter decided she wanted something I wasn’t willing to let her have or things just weren’t going her way, so she proceeded to have a tantrum.…